Anyone had one of those days?
Oh no, not us over here. đ
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Anyone had one of those days?
Oh no, not us over here. đ
Last night our oldest began to get teary-eyed when I announced bedtime was nearing. He’s still getting into the swing here, you know, since he was only placed here two days ago. Oh wait… did I forget to mention that?
Oh yeah, two days ago we got a phone call a little after 1p and added two new members to our family by 7p. Yep, 6 hours that I’ll never forget. The day had felt so normal. And when I was given the info over the phone I just knew “yes” was the only answer. It was our step of obedience that we’d been praying about for 1 year and seven months from that first heart-pricking. And in one afternoon we met them… the boys that have made us “never the same” and “never wanting to go back” all in one.
He’d cried himself to sleep the first two nights, missing his Mom. Rightfully so. I just agreed with him. It is not fair. I wish I could tell him when she’d come for him. I wish I knew if she’d ever come for him. I ran my fingers through his hair. Nits don’t hold water to love. He’s worth the risk.
Then last night came. And the story emerged. Too much seen. Violence. An emergency phone call. Fear.
I wish I could take it away from him. I wish I could blot out those images that haunt him… I wish I could replace them with trips to the park and Saturday morning cartoons.
Old words drew more tears to his eyes. His bottom lip quivered as he tried to regain self-control, failing. He confided the source of his nightmares… his anxiety about sleeping. His insecurity in what he should really believe.
I asked him if he felt safe here. He answered quickly with assurance. I wondered if that assurance would hold water right after a nightmare.
We prayed. And I stroked his hair more.
I just wish I could take it all away for him.
But I can’t.
But I know who has sheltered him. Who has guarded as much innocence as can be left after all he’s seen. I know who has stood in the gap, shielding him from so much so that he can lose himself in a bad joke, run in reckless abandonment through the house, and blast helicopters with laser beams right before they catapult to the living room carpet.
And all I can do is say thank you. Thank you, Lord, on his behalf.
And then I can just lead him to Your feet, in prayer.
…
Prayer for a peace beyond our understanding.
– Love that boy.
If you want a good read, ask a homeschooling Mom for her book list.
What I’ve found to be true, in most cases, is that homeschooling Moms have good book lists.
And what I’ve found to be true in all cases is that it matters what you read.
So I wanted to share a few beauties I have found amidst our public library system as well as online.
We strive to read with a purpose around these parts. Certainly we have some lovely classics like the “Anne of Green Gables” series, The Chronicles of Narnia series and The Little House on the Prairie series (though am I the only one to find those difficult to read aloud?), but we also have more mission-focused readings to add to our worldview around these parts.
I have found the enjoyment of the happy balance of reading to my girls before their nap time. Most days they fall asleep to my reading of a Missions Adventure novel, which I have mentioned before. We stumbled on a series, after stealing the recommendation from a homeschooling Mom of 10 who reads to her children for 2 hours per day from the smallest to the oldest. Janet and Geoff Benge, a husband and wife team, have taken and continue to take us on a journey through “big name” missionary’s lives with their beautiful mix of autobiography and narrative. With 35 chapter books in their Christian Heroes: Then and Now Series, we have enjoyed their 8-9 page per chapter adventure, witnessing the gospel spread in sometimes the bleakest of situations around the world. Some missionary stories come for the 1800’s and others from the 1900’s. There are varying denominations represented and varying countries supplying the missionaries. And I have found it quite a blessing that at least half of the entire series is found in our local library system.
Beyond the chapter experience, I stumbled upon “The Good Garden” by Katie Smith Milway recently. This was a lovely story with beautiful illustrations taking the readers through a 30 page journey (15 pages of text) of one family in Honduras’ movement from a poverty-stricken farm to a “food secure” farm. This story highlights the contribution of Don Elias Sanchez’s agricultural teaching and the impact on the local community. It also has a 2-page spread at the end of the book of world missions opportunities and ideas of how you can become involved in helping others become food secure. Neat book with poetic-like reading through a little girl’s, Maria Luz’s, perspective.
I also found recently these little, and I do mean little, books addressing specific sins through a kid’s view. They’re the “God I need to talk to you about…” series. They are written by Susan K. Leigh and Dan Carr and address: sharing, stealing, bad words, hurting others, bad temper, whining, greed, disrespect, bullying, laziness, paying attention, lying, bad manners, video games, vandalism, bedtime, school, homework, cheating, talking back, healthy eating, feeling sad, my parents, and being a bad sport. Each is a short read (about 2-3 minutes) in the form of a child’s explanation and admitting of the sin with the last page being a personal prayer of the child asking God to help them and admitting they were wrong. Each book takes you through a certain situation or scene depicting the problems through a kid’s eyes and even includes scripture on almost all of the pages regarding the sin. The book itself could fit in your palm, but the pictures are bright and fun enough to hold a child’s attention. I like that it addresses the sin quickly and simply while allowing for a bridge to open conversation about avoiding the temptation and asking Jesus for help. Plus they’re about $1.19 a piece on amazon. SCORE! Recommended age 4-8, but my 2 yr old enjoys these too.
We also recently purchased this book for our daughter’s 4th birthday that we stumbled upon in Family Christian bookstores. This is one of a small princess series written to target the fluff-age of fairytale with a little more backbone in the parable world. Princess Faith’s Mysterious Garden takes you through a kitten-seeking rendition of the parable of the lost sheep, with a two-page spread at the end paralleling the two stories. As you can quickly tell in the opening of the 5 daughters of the king, this series could be open to two additional books, since each sister appears to have their own story. But there are currently only 3 on the market. There’s Princess Faith, Princess Joy and Princess Charity’s stories out there thus far. But they’re cute, less-fluff, (primarily because of the attached 2 pages relating the story to the parable through the princess’ narration) storybooks satisfying the intense fairytale need in the eyes of any 3+ yr old little girl.
And then there’s my personal favorite in opening my own eyes, let alone the eyes of my sweet little ones, to the realities of “other than us” family living out there. Material World: A global Family Portrait by Peter Menszel is a wonderful project book composed of a pictorial look into the lives of families all around the world through the contents of their homes. Through this study, Peter Menzel had various families empty the contents of their home onto the nearby property to broaden our understanding of their lives. Each family has about 4 pages devoted to their lifestyle among the obvious conversation-fueling photograph of their “entire livelihood”. From the dirt-poor to the wealthy, this book is an awesome tool for broadening your understanding of “need”, “want” and culture. Plus, it’s found in our library system. While this is not really a “read to your child” type book, especially if you have preschoolers, it is jam-packed with facts and information about the countries, cultures and individual lives of these families.
I have also come across the “Little Lights” series by Catherine MacKenzie which allows us to put a few short stories about missionaries on our bookshelves. There are 8 books in this series that focus through 24 pages (each 2 page spread containing a new part of the story) on one missionary’s life in highlights starting from their childhood. The author does a nice job of keeping things pretty simple, but adding in the gospel and evangelistic drive of each missionary. I also like how there is a one-sentence summary available on each 2-page spread for your “quick flipping” crowd. And while the age recommendation is for 4+, my girls have enjoyed our growing stash of these books from age 2 and up. It’s just nice to read something with a little more historical meat in it without compromising the gospel message and the nice illustrations.
What are some of your favorites?
Well, that’s all from us for now.
– Enjoy!
– love!
âWhen the Saintsâ by Sara Groves:
I donât think it could be said better.
This world is so full of sin and injustice.
The only hope is Jesus.
But how will they hear if no one tells them?
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