Homeschooling Life

This past week’s been a quiet week of cleaning, homeschooling, and living. Nothing really to report, except that my house looks more straightened than it has in a long time. The laundry is also caught up to the point that I’m waiting on the clothes we are wearing today before I can make a full load. Don’t you love that feeling? Everything cleaned, folded and hung.

Abi got a little bug at the end of the week, resulting in some extra TLC and some unusual behavior for a day. But her character has returned with restful sleep.

We did the letter Gg in homeschooling this week. It was a fairly uneventful week of finger painting, puzzle work, reasoning worksheets, pattern work, and tracing/free handing letters. Rachael continues to write all her work with a fist-grab crayon hold that I don’t plan on correcting until we finish our Alphabet series in August (I have vacation breaks planned in). In August, the plan is to switch to our Answers in Genesis pre-kindergarten curriculum when Rachael is 3.5 years old. With the more structured curriculum, it will build on Rachael’s previous exposure to the alphabet and work on honing in more fine motor and cognitive skills. As with any pre-kindergarten material, Rachael will then be ready to either repeat the pre-K material or begin Kindergarten material at 4.5 (or whenever she completes the 180 lessons). I do not think age, but ability defines a child’s readiness for school, though maturity is certainly something to be considered. So we’ll see how she’s trucking along and tweak accordingly. I have no personal goals of Rachael being a genius nor do I feel that her age should restrain her willingness to learn. I’m just trying to cease the opportunities to play upon her enthusiasm and expanding attention span in exposing and absorbing as much as we can. Thus far it has worked out well.

Our alphabet series (approximately one letter per week), is solely for the purpose of exposing Rachael to the alphabet this time around. Since this is all new territory for her, I didn’t want her to be discouraged by the fine motor work and the pre-kindergarten level work of the Answers and Genesis curriculum. Since the Pre-K curriculum makes the assumption that the child is already somewhat familiar with the alphabet, therefore building on further skills of writing the letters correctly (emphasis on capitals), I didn’t want Rachael to be so distracted by the challenge of the foreign shapes of letters that she miss out on the joy and challenge of learning the other material. Answers in Genesis also uses the one letter per week method for the first 26 weeks and then continues on for there so the transition should not be abrupt. We’ll merely add on more to Rachael’s workload as her attention span continues to increase, striving to naturally challenge her newly advanced skills. During our current alphabet series, we are using good old dollar store preschool books to provide additional worksheet reasoning exercises. Rachael has enjoyed cutting, pasting, coloring by dots/numbers, reasoning, etc. worksheets that we do together in introduction to pre-K skills. She has gone from very scary cutting (eeek!) to more controlled paper manipulation and intentional cutting. It’s also really neat to watch her brain learn to reason from clues and prompts. So much is happening in that little head of hers in drawing connections, recalling information, and absorbing new information.

We also enjoy learning basic math skills, like counting beads/counters into an egg carton or into containers. We have used some marvelous $1 target bin colored shape counters to stack numbers 1-10 in an abacus style to teach her brain the concept of 10 being “larger” than 1, etc. We’ve enjoyed comparing measured amounts of water for “more than” and “less than” qualities. And we’re just touching into the concept of viewing a number as a whole collection of things. It really has been a joy to watch the lights turn on and see that “I’ve got it” smile creep onto her face, followed by her accomplished giggle.

It’s so neat to watch her put together things as her brain creatively computes making a big picture with many pieces. (Found the above sculpture as a bath-time creation and in delighting in her creative work, I took this picture).

Abi has been enjoying our homeschooling too, frequently taking the opportunity to rearrange materials on the table as she sees fit. 😉 She also enjoys the extra snuggle time that “sitting still” requires of Mommy. Abi finds herself enjoying looking at books and participating in group games (like shape and number races), running and imitating Rachael’s actions. On more squirmy or needy days, Abi draws a picture (scribbles like mad with any crayon she can reach) on the back of Rachael’s work or on a nearby scrap of paper. Since we are doing homeschooling primarily on Monday, Wednesday and Friday mornings for only about an hour to an hour and a half, Abi has found a greater sense of independent play in her “I don’t have to share this” freedoms. Honestly, Abi is able to entertain herself for the majority of the homeschooling session without requiring redirection. Her favorite, by far, is sitting on the floor reading and talking to her books. Seriously the kid will do it for an hour!

Post homeschool, Rachael gives Abi a hug and thanks Abi for letting Rachael do homeschool (I want her to see that we’re all giving to her education) and then the two friends play together for the remaining hour (or less depending on when we get started) until lunch. I love the jubilant play that ensues after homeschool sessions. It’s like a reuniting of two long-lost friends. =)

So for now that’s a little look into what homeschooling looks like in these parts.

Some days we have field trips to spice things up. But most days we just do a handful of preschool-appropriate tasks, even cooking on a brave day (Abi always must help), mixing up worksheets (you can only sit still for so long) and hands-on activities with races reviewing information and dancing or playing instruments to music. Right now it’s just all about exposing Rachael to the things she’ll be later required to produce fruit from with increased practice and watching as time and exposure produces that fruit, many times, faster than anticipated.

I am so blessed by her little heart and her little mind as she delights in the joys of learning. It really is so precious to get to share this time with her and do something together just me and my Rachael.

I look forward to the one-on-one that Abi’s schooling will create as well in the distant future. And am grateful for her patient snuggles and contentment to watch and repeat Rachael’s lessons (my little teacher) and even participate some too, in sharing Mommy with big sister.

It is so rewarding that some simple intentionality in education can lead to such delightful fruit in both my girls.

– thankful and blessed. 

A Day Away

We took the privileged opportunity to President’s Day to go to a dear friend, Kassie and Jacob’s house and bombard their clan. Kassie, a fellow “youth pastor’s wife” enjoys her three wonderful kids age 4 down to 11months. Jeffrey is 4, Josie is 2 and Josiah is 11 months. So with those three little ones, we highly enjoy group play and discovery. And I’m tell you right now, these are some of the best behaved kids I know – comfortable in love and boundaries. So I love the opportunities, though sometimes far between, that we get to spend time with them. Many times we get the opportunity to enjoy play together amidst a joint-church youth function.

Monday, on the other hand, we joined in their normal schedule, joining them for a pizza lunch (yum), naps and some fun indoor and outdoor play before returning home to our Daddy. While the kids all napped, Kassie and I enjoyed some Mom-time chatting about homeschooling, kids, and life.

It was a wonderfully refreshing time for all to play and enjoy eachothers’ company.

I look forward to further hangouts.

Here’s a few pictures I took during outside play:

 Rachael enjoying the car.
Abi after she “patiently” awaited her turn.
She means business, don’t even think about asking for your turn. 
 Abi traded her four pink wheels for Jacob’s two wheels.
(Jacob had just returned home from a weekend youth function when we were leaving.)

All the kids minus Josiah, who was in the house due to the weather and only being in a onesie (he wasn’t feeling so well, poor guy).
Wonderful day had by all. Thanks again, for the invite and the joy, Kassie.

Because We Could

Beautiful weather lately has brought us outdoors before the “second” snow fell (a dusting). So don’t mind me as I soak in these pictures of outdoor life lately while I check the weather channel for future cold and snow news.

 Taking our babies for a walk.
This leader had no problem running the pack 
– I had to ask her to stop a few times to keep up with her.
 She may think she’s huge, but she is still our little one. 
 And this one? Well let’s put it this way… 
we did some waiting. Little legs can only go so fast.
 Then came shoeless in the sandbox!
 No ‘eww, dirt’s here.
 Dump and fill, dump and fill.

 So delightful to experience it all together.

That’s all I caught in pictures from our few days outside. I try to participate more than document because the participation will leave the lasting memories for these two small ones. But I did get a moment to snap a few pictures. Other days we “rode bikes” in the driveway, went on nature walks, did some sidewalk chalk, and then kicked a big ball in the yard.

(sigh) Alright.. on to dust the snow off the bikes and return them to the playhouse that I’m using as a small shed for the winter.

Enjoy the cool weather, everyone. Stay warm!

A Morning to Remember

Today was a wonderful morning filled with slow children’s museum moments – really it is possible. Not those moments of stress, wondering how long before your toddler loses it. But one of those mornings of taking things at a preschool pace, stopping and smelling all the flowers along the way. Don’t you love those kind of mornings? No agenda or schedule pressings. Just life. One. Step. At. A. Time.

Due to going to the Children’s Museum with Ellen and “the cousins”, Rachael had a play group, Abi had someone to carefully study, and I had a reliable source of eyes to leave Rachael with when 19 months was done waiting.

This is the only picture I captured while the crew 
(5 total, age 4yr down to 19months – Abi’s the youngest) 
checked out some meerkats in the animal exhibit.

Abi was in such a sweet mood this morning. Her mellow little nature of exploring and satisfaction with taking things slow were so sweet to watch. She was a little shy in some moments, finding reassurance in Mommy’s leg-holding. But that little one listened so well today and was so easy going. Such a breath of fresh air was she.

Rachael was her normal curious self, finding delight in trying to figure out how things worked and what happened if you tried this… or that. And Ms. Social Butterfly spent a good portion of the morning repeating others’ phrases. I think Bekah (Ellen’s oldest) enjoys having her own echo sometimes. =) And Rachael seemed to enjoy being the echo as well. It reminded me of how we must first learn to follow before we learn how to lead. And some good, clean preschool copy-cat is always amusing to watch. When Rachael is on her own her imagination has taken flight involving story lines in her play. Oh what a wonderful age of enjoyment of stories, characters, and role playing. On the way to the museum Rachael “found” a baby chick and carefully cared for her baby chick, whom she cupped and sheltered in her hands, while in the car. She was sure to reassure the “scared thing” and nurture that little imaginary friend.

Rachael and her “chick”.

Daddy had a meeting with Grandpa today at the house from 11a-1p. Since I was not sure of whether they would eat lunch at our house or not and if the distraction would be welcome, I thought it a great day to have a special lunch date with the girls.

I’m not one to promote the Golden Arches restaurant. But there are occasions in which we choose to partake in the grease. When you don’t eat out too frequently it surely is a joyful event in the life of little kids. We had such fellowship and joy over chicken nuggets, french fries, apple slices and chocolate milk. Oh and then sharing an ice cream brought such over-the-top dancing joys.

It was one of those “mark that down” pleasant mornings with no hiccups. I love those “every day” memories that turn into such great joys in the world of three years and nineteen months. We can be a busy crew indeed, but the overwhelming excitements of “typical” things and discoveries, even if I can’t catch them on film because we’re still very Mommy-dependent, sure leave pictures upon pictures that I hope I never forget.

– so thankful.

Goodmorning World

I woke up early this morning and thought how I should use my time productively. Don’t you like how quiet it is in the world before the day really begins? Maybe only you morning people know what I’m talking about. You sleep-in people are just laughing. 😉

I could feel the crisp air outside, unseasonably warm, yet still cool. I didn’t even have to be out there thanks to large sliding glass doors. A train or two announcing their presence in the distance. Yes, the sweet sounds of morning.

The agenda today is one of delighting in fellowship. I look forward to spending some time with “the cousins” at a local children’s museum. We usually have homeschooling today, but thus is the joy of homeschooling that we bumped it to yesterday to accommodate a little over-due visiting.

As a gracious part of Matt’s parent’s Christmas gift to our family, they gave us season passes to a local children’s museum and then expanded the pass to include a whole host of nearby museums and attractions (like zoos) around the United States. Such a thoughtful and blessing-filled bunch they are, those Grandparents. “The Cousins” have a similar pass and thus play dates in the quiet mid-morning hours of the weekdays have spurred and continue to spur from such delights.

Last night I wasted a few hours on the couch beside Mr. Right, soaking in American Idol (really the auditions are the best part of that show) and “The Finder”. It’s not something I pride myself on doing, sitting and watching TV for two hours, but sometimes the cleaning and homeschooling prep is done and it’s nice to do something together. Hopefully we’ll get back to our Lego video games soon. =) It’s fun to whack someone to pieces (literally) in laughing play. I love how we can be “kids” together.

Read some encouraging reports on an old friend’s adoption blog. Ironically enough, I watched her children when they were younger than mine are currently. That’s one crazy thought that ages me. I’m excited to track their unification story as they bring home their newest family members from Haiti – a sibling group of three, adding to their bio three. Such a wonderful time of celebration and love.

Got report that my dear friend, Theresa, has malaria. Thank the Good Lord for medicine that makes Malaria common-cold oriented to dear African missionaries. God is such a good God to give those willing to serve “the least of these” a safety net too. Praying rest and healing over Theresa.

This weekend holds another Upward basketball game – this time scrimmaging my Matt. Hehehe. Let the competition begin. Kidding – that’s nothing like Upward. But we can sure pass silly glances back and forth during the game of “you’re going down.” My sweet little team is so pumped up to hear their names called and enjoy their moments of glory. Hoping my girls will be cooperative and kind to Mama amid their involuntary personal cheer leading recruitment. They’ve done decently at cracker and coloring book distractions amid my “coaching techniques”. (“Get on out there and play kids…. good luck, have fun!”)  I’m proud of my “try to sit still” toddler and “I just want to be a part of it all” preschooler. They have had many examples of patience and grace from the “player’s bench.”

Hope you’re able to get out and enjoy this unseasonably warm weather we’ve been having. The neighborhood has been thoroughly graced with our “let’s take a walk” presence lately – let alone the park. Though I must say that as she is beginning to come into her own personality, Ms. Rachael, has voiced her “inside over outside” opinions over the past few days. It doesn’t change her UV ray needs, but alas, her bookworm character is almost fully emerged. I can foresee many book picnics in seasons to come for my pasty-white brunette. Oh, but Blondy? She’s too busy exploring all the new things she can do “all by herself” to slow down for any foolish indoor play.

We “rode” our bikes over at the church gym yesterday. My preference was outside. Rachael’s preference was inside watching a movie. So we compromised and we got indoor gym play. The bikes are only as fun as pedaling frustrations. But the bleachers? Oh they are a whole new level of joy. For 20 minutes there was bleacher play: walking the bleachers, crawling through the bleachers, crawling under legs on the bleachers. Repetition, repetition, repetition. And the joy thereof. Activity comes in all forms – I’m just thrilled for activity.

And speaking of activity, I better get my devotion time in because activity will be waking in an hour.

Thanks for sharing in this journey with me.

How have you been journeying lately?

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