Here in the Arms of the Body

They have told me that my girls will not forget.

They will not let go of their love for their family and friends “in the States”.

The little ladies will only add.

Added language. Added perspective.

[wpvideo 3Z2JoCJ5]

And thanks be to God for added friendships.

[wpvideo bMcUaX3U]

Beloved in the Beavercreek, the truck cab, Minnesoda, Peru, California, Virginia, Nevada, Senegal, Niger, Brazil, South Africa, Kenya, Uganda, and other unidentified places,

those who have reached out with open arms to love on my little ladies,

[wpvideo EPQOxztT]

Jesus is loving them so well here.

[wpvideo 14HKJGWu]

Here in the arms of the body.

-Thankful, grateful and beyond blessed by their squeals.

-My conversant, Laura, and the girls’ Elsa at their finest. =)

Escola

img_7916b

School started two weeks ago for my oldest two loves, Rachael and Abi. And I just have to tell you, dear friends and family, I am SO INCREDIBLY proud of them. You will be too.

img_7913 (Their first few days of school were uniform free days. =) )

Let me start with a little context: Rachael and Abi go to school for 5 hours each morning and then return home for lunch. This is a normal schedule for elementary school, with most schools dividing the younger kids in the morning and the older kids in the afternoons. That being said, we’re thankful for Rachael and Abi both being in the morning slot so they can share morning snack/recess time (called “interval”) together.

img_7924

[wpvideo cTy87Fh4]

The learning curve is a steep uphill one between the Portuguese and the cultural stress. The girls have been taking it pretty well. Yes, we have had reports of tears amidst the overwhelm. Having been in a similar state of overwhelm myself, Rachael and Abi have taken comfort from walking through these growing pains together and have remained really beautifully hopeful about school. I can tell that is an answer to all your prayers.

So here’s how school works: I drop off Abi and Rachael at school at about 10 minutes before school starts. We use this time to walk in, set their backpacks down at their desks and sometimes walk around the campus a bit. The girls like to be early and to chat a little before school starts. Sometimes we find a friend or two and sometimes not. When the bell rings (old school walking the property with a handbell style), the children run from EVERYWHERE to get into their lines.

[wpvideo J2vdwHZq]

Once in their lines they go through a series of “warm up” marching songs to psyche themselves up for school. Hehe. Hey man, it’s Africa, every morning is a pep rally. 😉 The girls report from the frontlines that this time is SUPER loud in the gym and many times they, and other students, plug their ears while marching and yelling. Way to be resourceful, ladies. 😉

[wpvideo Bb3CrMOS]

(Sorry about the toddler crying in the background of that last film clip. Some are less excited about the preschool program here in these first weeks of new routines. 😉 )

Then the children split off and head to their regular classroom routines. Rachael and Abi are in the same cement building with no AC and one or two fans per room. Needless to say, the 100 degree weather can be rough sometimes, so the teacher happily allows any student to bring a water bottle and drink freely as they desire. As you will see in the video clips, Rachael and Abi’s classrooms have tile plated walls, cement floors, one large cabinet for all the student’s school supplies and a chalkboard a piece. Student desks are crowded, but joyful and the teachers hand-make all their wall posters since wall posters are not a normal here in the land of mud houses. It’s amazing how excited the children get over the brightly colored wall posters. =) It’s the simple joys, really. =)

[wpvideo vazWJMLW]

[wpvideo KLK4bBhz]

Rachael’s class studies: Portuguese (which also includes social studies in the book), Mathematics, Science, Music, Physical Education, and get this: English. Oh yes! Rachael is rocking her English class. 😉

Abi’s class studies: Portuguese (also including social studies in the book), Mathematics, Music, Physical Education, English (again, she’s nailing it), and some occasional Science.

One notable area of difference is writing. In Portuguese, much like studying English in elementary school, all the children learn handwriting. Remember how they teach print first and then cursive (if any) in the States? Yeah well it’s flipped here. So the cursive writing in Portuguese has been a steep uphill, but the teachers have been quite the encouragers. Since Abi is young, this is the year that reading and writing in Portuguese is taught so she has an advantage in this area. Rachael, on the other hand, while working through sheer understanding of Portuguese, is also learning to spell and write in cursive. So she is working three times as hard as everyone else in the class who a) know the language b) have had three years of spelling the language and c) have had three years of cursive. Um, yeah… this kid deserves a metal for her incredible effort!!! I am SO thankful that her teacher is encouraging and can already see Rachael’s willing and hardworking little heart. At home, I have made some posters to help teach cursive (a bit different than the US type), Portuguese words for numbers and geometric shapes and a few other helps. Rachael and Abi are also continuing their Portuguese tutoring with Elsa, which has now turned into homework help. Elsa has been a WONDERFUL help to the girls, freeing them to play and have a carefree evening with us at the completion of our afternoon language session and their homework session. Rachael and Abi have homework nearly every night, but they are learning well.

img_7926

(I took this picture after Rachael had a hard day staying late in the class through some of her recess and late in the day to try to get this homework assignment copied from the board. She was in frustrated tears because she desperately wanted to write it quickly like the other kids, but between the cursive and the Portuguese it was a huge challenge. I took this picture because this dear child was so determined that she returned home, used this picture to write the words in her homework notebook, wrote this a second time on a piece of paper and returned to school the next morning to paste the excerpt into her school notebook from where she had not completed it the day before. This child is one HARD WORKER! People, her determined heart is just so beautifully encouraging.)

Nope, it’s not all roses, sweet family and friends. The cultural stress is very real. The language barrier is hard. But we are all thankful for Elsa’s past teaching sessions really helping the girls with basic communication in and outside of the classroom. And while someone is always excited about dropping her sisters off at school,

img_7911

my little ladies that stay for the 5 hours a day are bravely riding this very real rollercoaster.

One harder morning of drop off, Abi cried and needed a few more extra hugs than usual. As Abi shed tears kids began to come around her and I asked Abi aloud in Portuguese so everyone could understand me, “Where is your friend?” Instantly a little girl from the crowd shot her hand up and stepped closer to Abi. … That was a beautiful gift of Jesus. Abi calmed down and stood with the little girl while the class began their normal routine. Thanks be to our God, the Provider of comfort amidst hard steps forward.

Rachael reported having a few times of tears and laying her head down on her desk to cope. In one such moment her teacher kindly excused her to the bathroom to collect herself. I was thankful for the grace of a few minutes away. Rachael capitalized on that time and returned to the classroom ready for the next task.

But even with the harder days popping up here and there, Rachael and Abi also have some very wonderful days that leave them bubbling over with delight at the end of the school day and hugging their teacher as the class files out. It’s not all roses, but it’s not all thorns either. 😉

So without further adieu, I’ll let them share a few things themselves.

[wpvideo OOZBKJz0]

[wpvideo 3Wb1abZS]

Thank you for your continued prayers, love and support as we all adjust to our new norms here in Mozambique. We feel your prayers and the girls have taken great comfort in your encouraging words as you have sent them through WhatsApp, Facebook, Slack, and email.

We love you all and thank you for continuing to love us ever so well.

More than Enough

It’s something we didn’t want to do. Grace has been given to us in utter abundance and we strive to offer it to others with similar reckless abandonment. He has a family. Eight kids as of date. It began with talks. Problems continued and it became obvious. We had to let him go.

See, when you have hired help you are supporting not only them but their whole family as well. Our kids played together. The timing was hard. But the decision had to be made.

It’s not a light decision to be made. Our hearts were troubled. If it were an easy decision there would be something wrong with our perspective. Something wrong with our love. We know how much he needed the job. But it could not go on. He had to find employment elsewhere. There was too much going wrong.

So one sad morning, Matt and John went out there to dismiss him. Stay in the box of “thank you for your service but there is no longer a need for this position.” It would best honor him. It would best respect him. He wouldn’t be seen begging for his job. He would simply be paid for his work for that month and given more for a grace period while he sought employment. He still comes attached to a family. We still care for him.

We weren’t sure how things would turn out, but there was instant relief that there was a clean slate. And then we got the news that his stolen bicycle had been found and returned. and we rejoiced that he was also given another opportunity to find employment more easily.

And today I look out the window to check on them and this is what I see:

img_7883

And I can’t help but see His grace in it all.

A grace that loves to play with the kids. A grace that teaches Portuguese numbers while he lifts them up to pick leaves. A grace that lets the teething puppy chew on his pant leg so he won’t chew on two little girls crouching to play in the water spout. A grace that erupts in laughter with them as he turns down the water spout that has sprayed them all.

img_7881

(Look at her just dying laughing.)

It’s so much more than a person. It’s His provision. It’s His calm after a challenge.

And when they come in from the yard all wet and overflowing in giggles and smiles I just have to thank the Lord for His provision. (And then go get their wet clothes changed.;) )

Jehovah Jira (God our Provider) is and will always be

More than Enough!

-Thankful, grateful and beyond blessed.

The Old Meets the New

I was scrolling back through some old posts and found this one that I thought you all would enjoy.

Would you?

I didn’t know it then. I was just walking another day with our Father, but isn’t it cool how God orchestrates it all. Shortly after this post Matthew proposed to me and the adventure continued to build to date.

It’s not always some huge moment, but just a slow building of time.

And on a totally unrelated note: I have been blogging for 12 years!

Want to know what 12 years of blogging looks like? Holding the scroll down arrow down for a solid 4 minutes and 15 seconds scrolling through all your 1,051 posts until you finally get to the first post you ever wrote!

It’s so cool to look back at how much God has done in the past 12 years!

How He has blessed me so as I have pursued Him.

Wow, how undeserving I am of such grace.

What a blessing to look back and see His hand at work.

Such a sweet realization

when the old meets the new.

 

 

Words

“You look like a flat man who is long with a ball on his head.” Says Hannah (4 yrs old) to Matt spontaneously at the dinner table. We all died laughing. She was dead serious and in no way mean-spirited. #QuiteTheObserver

_____________________________________________________________

Eden (2 yrs old) has added the word “super” into her vocabulary. So in case you’re curious things are now “super fun”, “super long”, “super scary”, “super cold”, “super hot”, “super loud” and “super funny”. Maybe the best thing about these additions are that she uses the word super to try to convince you of her opinion. “Come on!!! It’s super fun!!!” #SuperCute

______________________________________________________________

We have been enjoying adding some thought-provoking heart questions to our mealtimes. You know, because sometimes we don’t want to hear those kid movie lines… again… and again… until they no longer have breath left in their bodies….. 😉 I have enjoyed hearing their answers to “What is your favorite family memory?”, “If you could plan our next vacation, where would you take us?”, “If you were the mom or the dad tomorrow, what would you do?”, “What is one thing you’d like to do when you’re older?”, and so many other good ones. #KidWorldIsAmazing

________________________________________________________________

“He a good Daddy. He put music on. He put Bible on. He put us to bed. … He make yunch (lunch) – He a good, good Daddy.” Eden (2 yrs old) confided in me at bedtime.

“Mommy? You make yunch (lunch) tomorrow?” Eden asked. When I responded ‘yes’ she immediately said, “I like yunch (lunch).” #SheHasNoIdeaHowAdorableSheIs

_________________________________________________________________

These are just a few ways that words have been really fun lately. =)

A Three Month Old Hello.

Yesterday marked us as 3 month old American Africans here in Mozambique. Three months! I know, doesn’t that seem so young… and yet so old all at the same time?!

So we decided to make this video to share with you all just a bit of our life here.

Hope you enjoy hearing from each of the kids too. =)

And if this 5 minutes is too short for some of you, don’t worry, we’ll be sure to repeat this video making soon. 😉

We love you all and thank you SO, SO MUCH for all your prayers, love and support.

It truly is a privilege to be here.

[wpvideo erN8Cezu]

-To God be all the Glory.

[Continued giving can be done online at this link: https://www.imb.org/give/ ]

Proudly powered by WordPress | Theme: Baskerville 2 by Anders Noren.

Up ↑