{"id":7994,"date":"2013-06-01T13:29:05","date_gmt":"2013-06-01T18:29:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/todayslegacy.wordpress.com\/?p=7994"},"modified":"2026-06-20T10:39:12","modified_gmt":"2026-06-20T10:39:12","slug":"home-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/todayslegacy.net\/index.php\/2013\/06\/01\/home-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Home"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s been a wonderful Saturday, taking 5 out to a few stores and poking around on clearance racks for additions to the boys&#8217; wardrobes. There were a few holes now that summer is creeping into the tail-end of spring. Two happy boys with new shorts and a few new shirts. Three happy girls, one who was napping and the other two adding creativity to the shopping experience of others. \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>It was a simple morning, followed by lunch and two kid haircuts. One in the kitchen and one in front of the TV.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>It is really simple. But it felt like home.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I remember sitting in the court room. There were just four of us back then. We sat in a line with the rest of the clan. We held signs, &#8220;we&#8217;ll take her!&#8221; and &#8220;we love you Aunt Alyssa!&#8221; We got the privilege to attend our Alyssa&#8217;s adoption court hearing. She completed the eight of my Matthew&#8217;s side. It was cool to hear a dusting of her case. She had been looking. Different foster homes. Trying on families. And then she came home. She choked through tears as she explained to the judge, &#8220;When I came to the Stauffer&#8217;s I just felt like I was home.&#8221; My skin still pricks up when I recall it all.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Sweet child of ours. The one that&#8217;s out there somewhere wanting a home. I don&#8217;t know if we&#8217;ve already met you. I don&#8217;t know if you&#8217;re already going to sleep in the boys&#8217; room. But know that we are longing for you. Like a Mother hen collects her chicks. We&#8217;re waiting with anticipation. One is missing.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I pray that one day soon. Maybe sooner than I know. You will find us your home.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>And to &#8220;my&#8221; sweet boys, I don&#8217;t know if I&#8217;ll ever get to call you mine. But I love you so. A choice love. And a love that can&#8217;t be changed by you not having our last name. And Big Guy? I agree. It would be pretty &#8220;cool&#8221; if you were born here. Right here amongst this home. And I pray that if we never get the privilege to call you our sons, I pray that you&#8217;ll find home. Real home. 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